Since everything you do is tracked down by your office attendance, you could not take a leave for the purpose of applying a divorce. This does not mean that you would have to compromise without taking a divorce and live together forever. Once the thought of separation has taken birth it becomes tough to kill it as there could be many reasons why one is looking for separation. So, how about signing in the deed of separation Singapore. If you think you could not list down all the topics that would go into this deed, then consulting a lawyer is the best approach.